Your Sippy Cup

Constantly trying to explain what writing means to me. I believe I was born to do it. It's always been my dream to just write for a living. In my 12 years old mind the thought planted the seed of a writer. Strongly hope for it to bloom. Now is the time. I write daily. Pen and paper are my favorites but the keyboard is also fine. I need music sometimes but my heart and my soul are in everything I show you. Night and day, winter and summer, inside and out. Eternal fire keeps burning in me, are you ready to meet your destiny?

Stupid Love, yet all we ever wanted was Love. Even if you are terrified, you are going to enter the battlefield again. No, we don't need a specific reason. Sorry, not sorry. Being 'The One' is not just for Neo, you know. Let my words heal you! You must open the door and wake yourself up to believe in me. Even us, the sinners, can be happy. Yes, you just read that right. Now is the time to freak out. 

I'm not afraid to take the next step. Human life is shorter than how most of you might think. Hope dies first. We love the lies that comfort us but the truth is that's not happiness. I ain't going back to that now. Born as a warrior, lived through countless wars, yet still breathing. I want you to listen to me and just fill it up. What's in your sippy cup?

your soul writer,

Kata The Nomad Writer Photographer

Pet The Deer

Yes, I'm that person who goes into a forest and pets the deer. I feel deeply connected to Mother Nature and the animals, trees, flowers, and lakes/waterfalls/rivers inside of it. I even get spiritual in a sense. It has happened before that I picked up strays from the side of the road or helped with my bare hands to save a tree. I enjoy spending time in nature and often find myself lost in thought while walking through it. I'm naturally in tune with animals and jump into action to ease an animal's pain. Not ashamed that I'm affected by natural beauty: blooming flowers (as you can see on both my @katathenomad or @katathewriter Instagram pages), trees swaying in the wind, sunlight reflecting off the water (especially a lake).

Hearing about any kind of destruction of Mother Nature finds me in conflict. Having a soft heart for nature and animals is not good life insurance if you ask me. Depression comes near when the natural world suffers from human impact. I can't be patient when it comes to those who act carelessly. Saving the environment is not an option, it is a must. A duty - Call of Duty - if you want. It begins with you, then your local government. The biggest aid to this planet Earth comes from your own community. I take my hats off to those who stand up and do anything. Turning passion into action is what I admire the most. 

I'm a private person also who feels more at home with nature than with humans. Yet, I got the talent from God that I can build bridges between groups, so I can't relocate to the Himalayas. (Which I often dreamed about.) I'm still figuring out what to do with the time left.

your soul friend,

Kata The Nomad Writer Photographer

The Bells At Noon

I love the sound of our church bells every noon. It somehow brights up my mood not just because of the historical victory but I find it exceptionally beautiful. It reminds me that each day is a new chance. You have to make the best out of it. What's the best of the rest? It differs as we do. Human life is a gift, as I keep saying to you all. It matters what you do with your time on this planet. It's okay to think about the possibilities, just like going with the flow. No rule fits everybody. 

I enjoyed the bachelorette party yesterday for my college friend Niki. I was afraid that the idea of me organizing it won't work out, but the ladies said they had fun. Most importantly, Niki had a good time too! We went on long walks as a tiny adventure on foot. Saw our river Danube, Prison of Vác, and did many cute photo challenges! We laughed a lot and ate yummy cakes! Even made a cherry blossom hairdo for Niki! The only thing left is me going to her wedding on the 3rd of May. Going solo, which hasn't happened in a long time. Is anybody free on that day? Haha. If not for the wedding but later for a cup of coffee? I love meeting new and interesting people.

Have to edit and re-write most of my writings these weeks/months to get ready for the publishing and competitions in 2022. I can use any help, advice, or tutorial! Feel free to accompany me in this learning and evolving process! 

your soul friend,

Kata The Nomad Writer Photographer

Mother Earth

Let's hope it's not just for one day! Act in a way that shows it's not just for a year! Mother Earth has provided all we need to live, yet we became the forgetful children. I believe there is a lot to make up for Her. We all can do something, take a small step, and change a few habits. Please don't buy plastic bottles or plastic-packed food! At least, try to minimize the purchase on those! Buy a bamboo toothbrush, and a bamboo hairbrush! Have your own bags when you go shopping to avoid being given a plastic bag! You can use your plastic things to set up an inner garden when you plant tomatoes or pepper, or even for onions, and herbs! Don't panic if you have never ever done it before - there are several YouTube channels to help (or better to ask your Mom/Grandma)! Find the solution! It takes a small effort and makes a big change.

All I have is love and respect for Mother Earth. I know I did my part of the pollution, and I woke up a little late but ever since then I'm doing the right thing. My household is getting greener, and my family and friends are mostly listening to my advice, we are getting there. I'm aware that time is not on our side, yet I keep going. Even if there's a war going on next door to us. I have to share my demonstration of support and protection for Mother Earth. I can still remember how life was when I was a kid. Nowadays is a lot harder, a lot different. Not just financially but emotionally, mentally, and physically. We are tested in so many ways. Our patience has to grow stronger than ever. Faith is being slapped, whatever it is we believe in. 

We have to think of other options than gas and electricity. Sounds unreal? Well, this is what is going to be our reality soon. Luckily the spring is here, so we got a little time to figure out the next winter. Or am I being too optimistic here? Mother Earth will tell.

Water. My most precious element. We need water to live, so why are we killing our waters? Why are we poisoning them? Who gets to decide what happens to our waters? Why can't we save what's left from our waters? How come we still can act like there's an unlimited amount of water on our planet? I believe we are running out of water faster than most of us have ever thought. When is the better time to wake up from daydreams than right now?

Air, oxygen. We also need that to survive. Why do we have to convince the politicians that it's an urgent matter? Are they not breathing? Of course, they do. Why plant trees? Because we want to live on the other day too. I believe I'm quite rational. If you have two working legs then please use them! Walk, cycle, run, jog! Fewer cars - less mess! The houses/flats need modernization. This whole system needs much updating.

I can only say that I hope the light wins. I pray for the goodness in most people to be awakened. Let it be more than just one day! Join me in this mission to save the rest of Mother Earth! Thank you all.

your soul friend,

Kata The Nomad Writer Photographer

Lust VS Love

Most people have no idea what's the difference between the two. Lust won't last long, love won't go away (even if you try to force it). Lust is for the look (and complexion of the body), love is what you feel inside your heart. Love is stronger because it changes you for the better. Lust can only destroy you in every way. Need proof? Johnny Depp and Amber Heard, that was not love, my friends, that was lust. It's so sad (and totally crazy) what went down between that two, celebrities or not. It was inhuman in most ways. That's what lust does to you, it fucks up your mind. No guessing here, that woman has a lot of mental issues. Johnny Depp is just Johnny Depp, what did Miss Heard expect? I mean, he wears his personality on his sleeves. On the other hand, Mr.Depp should have been wiser than that. Femme fatale is called that way for a bloody reason. I bet there won't be a second time he falls for that. Fingers crossed, anyway.

Human life is just a second compared to the universe's existence. It matters who you spend that short time with. Don't waste your chance to find true love! It's never too late. Any day can become Day 1 with the One. We all have a past, and it's all right. We all have a present too. Taking people and things for granted is what we have learned does no good to you. Be prepared for the twists and turns! God has a plan, and we have a plan, and where those two meet, well maybe the outcome fits your dreams (or needs). You are going to learn a lot, that's for sure.

Men are like butter and women are like fire when it comes to the question of lust. It hits you if you are unarmed, especially if you are willing to fall for it. It's not a weakness to want love. But it's a sin if you deny the obvious. The signs are always there, whether it's going to work out or not. It's an adult decision to go into war. You are alive if you can still feel love in your heart. You are already dead if you can only feel lust. 

I feel sorry for both Mr.Depp and Miss Heard because they are both victims of lust. Lies and violence grow from the seed of lust. Anybody who had experiences like those two can relate. Lust is a pure mindfuck. True love exists and it takes courage to stand up for it. Walk the extra miles for it. Face yourselves for it. Love is much more than lust. Love is real. Love is eternal. Love wants the best for you. Love wants you to be happy. Compassion, humility, honesty, and encouragement grow from the seed of love. You surely know the difference. Love is selfless. Love is pure. You can't help loving someone. 

I believe in true love and I won't ever give up on it. I still dare to face life with or without it. I don't get to decide for the time but I do get to decide for the possibility. 

your soul bucko,

Kata The Nomad Writer Photographer

All Smiles Youthful Soul

What many of you may have noticed about me is that I'm a limitlessly cheerful soul. I somehow manage to attract animals and babies around me. They keep coming to me all happy, even if I just stepped out off my doorstep. It's always been like this, and I'm more than grateful for their unconditional love. It's great feedback on what I project from myself into the world. The energy I share is good for them.

I have high hopes about the same effect on adults. Mostly I seem to appear gifted in that area too. I've always cared about how do other people feel around me. The world puts enough burden on our shoulders, so let's make it easier for each other! Sometimes saying a simple 'hello' does the job but I prefer talking about the real deal straight ahead. I like the brave people who come out of the shadows and shine their light upon the rest of us. You can be one of them too.

A smile is worth a million dollars to me. My youth factor is how many times you smile per day. How many people have you made laugh today? I don't believe in the age number and how it defines us in society. I'm 37 officially, yet I can feel and act like a 17, 27, 47, 57, etc. so what's the point? Born as an '80s kid I grew up differently, had other favorites, and crushed on various people and things. The best outcome is that I'm not that tired of life being unable to smile. I still have a pure heart and am still able to feel innocence.

On the other hand, I had my share of human bullshit and foolishness. I don't like ignorance and arrogance. Did my time in bad relationships, both in my family and in my love life. The phrase 'been there done that' can truly fit me. I've been married, I've been divorced, I was single, and I was taken. Now I say if you want to know about my private life you should be present.

Saw the new 'The Batman (2022)' last night. Well, wasn't a big surprise that I couldn't fall for Mr.Pattinson's way of interpretation. My Dark Knight is a lot different - Christian Bale, yet he (Pattinson) wasn't as bad as I expected. The villain /The Riddler/ really went for it deep and he was good. Hats off to Paul Dano (but please don't come anywhere near me!). Just like Alfred /our lovely Gollum aka Andy Serkis/, James Gordon /sweetheart Jeffrey Wright/, and the Penguin /Colin Farrell's eyes are totally recognizable/ did very well. They gave an entertainment. Thanks to the whole cast and crew, this was a nice shot.

The Killers are on tour!!!! Damn, wish I could see them live!!!!

your soul buddy,

Kata The Nomad

The Reality of Fiction

I can write about much more serious topics if you wish me to. Since you are all too shy to comment, then I'm going to have to read your minds. What happened to the movies? Where are the good stories? Where are the good actors? Where is the message to find between the lines? Why does Hollywood have to dumb us down? 

I miss the good old humor. I mean, when there is the fire in the dialogue. I'm also seeking that in real life, in conversations with people. I like when it's the give & get game when you have to stay sharp and focused to roll along with it. Not everyone is gifted with humor, especially not everyone who has a good sense of humor. 

Human life has one purpose: to keep looking for happiness but never find it. Why? Because when you find it then life ends. Or if you have found it then something is wrong. Simply because human life was meant to struggle. It was designed to lead you somewhere, and teach you along the way. Live and learn. If you are a know-it-all then you are already dead.

While I grew up irony was still legal. Sarcasm and black humor were like fresh air. Nowadays it can cost you a lot to speak your mind or your heart. Politically correct but intellectually captive. Freedom is taken away, democracy is not what it should be anymore. Most people are so sensitive and so stupid. It became hard to find interesting companies.

I'm not a philosopher, nor a politician. I'm just a writer and a theologian. Human life needs entertainment but what we have nowadays is hard to call that. There are exceptions though but not too many. The movies are dying, freedom is no longer fought for, and faith became fiction.

My reality is what I believe in, so you can call it fiction. Yet, there is nothing more needed in the present than faith. Sinners, aren't we all? The angels are gone, a long time ago. We only get to choose the in-between, birth and death are settled. So, what are YOU gonna do?

your soul friend,

Kata The Nomad

Backstreet Easter Bun

Thursday it is and I have so much to write to you! It's been all super duper crazy and busy, I've been doing so many stuff and thangs /Rick Grimes/. Reading the news is not always the healthiest choice but when a real-time war is going on next door, that is when you must.

To ease the burden: Backstreet Boys are back on tour! I mean, one has to know about that. I still remember the early teenage years when we had our dancing sessions for some of their songs. The lyrics were just too catchy not to learn, whether you liked it or not. Tell me about it! Bloody human nature. Better give me my dose of 'After Life'! Second favorite show of all time. Hands down. /No, not that down./ Always kinda enjoyed Ricky Gervais' humor /telling the truth about celebrities and everything in a hilariously raw way/ but this show is something even more. The cast and crew deserve standing applause. They are all amazing. One can relate to their simple needs and problems. There are moments when I can feel the acting stops and something real comes out of each of them. I love Anne/Dame Penelope Wilton (also Isobel Crawley in Downton Abbey), adore Daphne/Roisin Conaty, absolutely freaked out from Brian/David Earl, hate the psychiatrist/Paul Kaye, cheer for Kath/Diane Morgan, laugh my head off on that postman/Joe Wilkinson, etc. the list is long, my darlings! First-class entertainment and honestly, just human.

Easter is knocking on the door. I was wondering the other day, do most people celebrate Easter because of the religious means or the yummy food and family gathering? Feel free to answer this in the comment section below! /Which no one has ever done before, so if you like the firsts, be my bloody guest, pretty please!/ 

Survivor (which I thought I am in every way) is a funny thought to enter. I'd be like 'Wait, wait, wait! I have to eat my morning bun with my decaf coffee! The surest thing is then I can jump off that cliff. I can die? Oh, so there is no safety net? Never mind, I've always been lucky. Just give me a second to call my Mom, all right?'

We are all happy that JLo took Ben Affleck under her wings again. Don't know what any woman can see in that lad but hey, no more fake romance news to take the space on the media. One can be at least grateful for that. /Hope you read the irony in it./

Stay true to who you are, and don't stress over the little minds!

your soul friend,

Kata The Nomad

Don't Let Me Down

Black currant nectar is what I'm drinking right now. Sober, yet drunk with the love of life. The possibilities to grow. I have to learn something new all the time. I'm always willing to make the move. Relocation is my second name. Not but I really don't mind. Narada Muni's lifestyle is kind of my thing in this life. What makes me truly happy is the simple things. 'Simple living, high thinking' as Srila Prabhupada used to teach.

I need you right now, so don't let me down! Whoever, wherever. Human life won't wait for you forever. Do what you love, be with who you love! Have faith in God's timing. Fucking hard, I am perfectly aware. Going through the very same, darling. I hope that you will be here.

What is holding you back? Lack of faith in yourself. You can do whatsoever you make your mind up to. It won't ever be easier. People think what they want, you can not make them see the truth. Just take that step! Leap of faith as you said. But do you have what it takes to turn the tides? Don't let me down!

We are all black and blue, abused, fucked up. I'm done with explaining myself to those who can only see what their mind shows them. I can take you to places nobody knows about. The question is: are you ready to go? Deep down where the sirens start to sing your song.

your faithful soul friend,

Kata The Nomad Writer Photographer

Ideal Human Being

Nasty words to start with. Who can be ideal? Who can become ideal? Is there a chance for these teenagers nowadays to once become a gentleman or a lady? Is there anyone out there to teach them? Is there anyone left? I see these poor kids, born after 2000, and I truly feel sorry for them. Each and every one of them. What do they experience? Divorces, non-stop quarrels, abuse, gang fights, addictions, lies, adults around them without any goal, everything is happening online, the dumber the cooler, etc. We had our struggles too, yet we saw some better examples. We had smarter grandparents, good teachers, we had our dirty playground, we went out for fresh air daily, we had no mobile/laptop/ifuck/whatever tools they are having nowadays. When we liked someone we wrote a real letter or we had to go to them, face to face. Our parents talked to us, disciplined us, encouraged us, fought with us, and made us stronger and smarter. We had to work hard for every small victory. We learned through the real deal called life. Real-life. We were not raised in a bubble, nor thrown out to feed the dogs. It was a rough ride but at least a move.

Ideal means to me that you have met life. You have been there and done that, yet you are still out here working for the change. Faith starts with that. Warriors can't stop. We can't give up. We can get tired but we can't let ignorance and darkness win over knowledge and light. As simple as that.

On the other hand, if you are trying to become ideal - don't do that! It won't happen. Wanting too hard is a sealed failure. What I suggest is to be true to yourself! That is just as good as being ideal. Act like you mean it! Say what you think and act how you promised! Even better if you just do it without the promising part. Actions speak louder, remember?

An ideal human being walks tall because she/he has faith in God. Not fanatical, just realistic. Nowadays there is no better insurance than faith in God, love for God. 

your soul friend,

Kata The Nomad Writer Photographer

Economic Crisis Friday

Nah, don't you worry! It won't happen overnight but lurking around the corner. This war between Russia and Ukraine causes inflation for sure. It already does as we experience it going to the shop. Any kind /bakery, mall, farmer's market, etc./ as a matter of fact, and Federal Reserve is on its way because no question that this is a high risk to the financial system worldwide. I know this is material information and you are not looking for another ringbearer. We are currently living in the material world, so we must care at a certain level. A healthy level for our households. We all need to plan ahead, just a few steps.

Dreams can become fuel for the human journey. Dreams can cleanse the heart and mind. I highly recommend you to dream and try to remember what it was in the morning. The dream moments can help you go forward. One day at a time.

Global trade got slapped from both directions: China came second, right after Russia. Now our material lives are at stake. No joke, fellow writers and artists. Financial things are not really our field, yet nowadays we must see clearly what is happening. WE have to make a plan B, plan C, etc. I'm a dreamer, yet I have a rational and strict side too. This situation woke the survivor in me. How about you guys and dolls? Where are you from and what is going on there?

Prices of electricity and gas will be deadly. If you have any sanity and a few opportunities then you should be prepared with working daily hours, lit candles/lampions at night, heat with wood, or any kind of alternative material. I know how Mother Earth has suffered from global warming and plastic pollution, and now this! I'm open to any suggestions on how to survive this crisis in Europe.

Coming soon with the better topics!

your soul friend,

Kata Varga, Nomad Writer Photographer

Disenchanted Ultimatum

Funny words become great titles in my blog posts. I love to challenge my readers' minds! You guys and dolls see the title and wonder, get excited, get moved in some direction. Good to know what triggers who. Please, if you have time, give me some feedback on what has worked for you already! I'd love to read the comments! Thanks!

Are you disenchanted in anything or by anyone? 

Have you ever been given an ultimatum before? Are you planning on giving one?

Being disenchanted is an everyday issue of this era. But why? What do you think the main reason is? In my way of seeing things, it's because we expect too much from material things. Seriously. Even from our morning coffee /decaf or not/, not to mention our loved ones. Relationships sink us down instead of lifting us up. But why is that happening? Some past sins won't stay buried? Most dangerous threats come from blood? The war is only inside your head? Maniacs are walking the streets, the cure is searched for but never found.

The ultimatum is short: if you want to be happy then rip prescriptions apart. Only one medicine is out there for any kind of problem: face it! Your life, your duty. Don't blame, don't escape! There is limited time in this body, in this game called human life. You are not the exception, trust me on that! It's going to end one day. You better be ready. Happiness is a mindset, not a goal. The little things, the small steps, one day at a time - they all count. The efforts won't fade away. Confession doesn't have to be public, you know.

your soul pirate,

Kata, Captain of the good old Blackthorne

Unconventional Me

There are no accidents in this human life. Everything truly happens for a reason, and it's up to you to read between the lines. I'm anything but ordinary which makes things a little complicated but I say I'm fine. Most of the days I am, and for the other ones, it's hard to just breathe. I've always been a person with the strongest faith, never had a doubt about the purpose or the sacrifice. It has been a tough ride so far, yet wouldn't change a thing.

Who wants to keep trying? Who dares to love? Who listens?

Freedom calls me by the wind, and it talks loudly. Longing for the water when the fire burns too much on the inside. Earth is there but who wants to sit in one place? Ether or air are both kisses from Mother Nature. Spin that bottle, truth or dare? It's a horrible or a wonderful knowledge that nothing but the drift is possible - this had worn me out. Being a Harley means you won't stop looking for the Joker. Or is he already out there hunting for you? Time will tell.

Driving yourself crazy, no need for that. Don't die just to fit in! Show them what you were made of! Keep doing what makes you happy! Longing to meet someone whose secrets nobody else knows. Like me. I'm done with the obvious. Forgive is to forget. Moving on is the true superpower one can have. Ride or die, means more than you can imagine. When this life is full of bright and dark colors when miracles happen daily. I believe in fairies, you can call it the faith of the abused. Heard all the lies that can be told, reading lips to unfold. Freakness is on the loose, not calling it back anymore. I know you all. God is on my side. Being a monster means you once were an angel who fell down hard. 

We are all fucked up, not a secret. What we do with the chance came as a human life that counts. Choices and decisions are made daily. What is real and what fools you with fakeness? Trust your gut! Trust your heart! That's where God and the soul live. Who can be a bigger gambler than HIM? Put it all in for you.

your soul friend,

Kata The Nomad Writer Photographer

#HungaryElections #ateválasztásod

As I wrote about it here before, tomorrow is Hungarian Election Day! It matters to me, the right to choose. Even if it kind of seems all crap and lies nowadays, it's not. We all should go and vote! I am going to as I've always done it since 2006 - the age of 21 /sadly couldn't go in 2002 because being a September kid so I was only 17 by the elections/. I'm 37 today, and this era makes me want to cry, yet I'm more than ready to make a difference. You probably know me that much by now - I'm a rebel with many causes. I walk tall with my strong will to make a change. It's the time! Let's make them all sweat! To the people with voices - this is your chance to join me! Change things for the better!

Freedom - how many times we have fought for it? Today and especially TOMORROW are no different! We - Hungarians make huge turns in this material world, so let's keep it that way! Please choose peace and hope! Bring back the light to this world! Don't be afraid to stand up for what matters to you! I'm not telling you the right answer because you have it in you. Even the smallest can change everything. Focus on those who you feel are right. Choose a cause or an honest person you can put your trust in! Watch and observe! Think carefully about the past years, the pandemic, and before that! 

Your human life counts. Your choices count. It all matters.

your soul friend who is going to vote tomorrow,

Kata Varga - Kata The Nomad, Kata The Writer