Closer To The Edge

The closer you are to the breaking point(s) - the stronger you can get out of there. I will never forget these days/weeks/months/years of struggle because they made me who I am today - and who I will be tomorrow. I saw the ugly face of the worst possibilities, yet I decided to go on, to fight for what I've dreamed of and believed in. You can never know for sure what is going to work out for you. You have to take the shot, swallow the pride, let go of the anger and frustration, keep breathing underwater! Even if your day never comes - that's the craziness and the beauty in human life. You go out there, no matter what.

Edges shape the mind - the intelligence - the will of a human being. Some things change, others last forever. Don't regret the mistakes, the wrong turns! You came here for a reason and nothing can stop you from getting there. Closer to the edge - the better. Am I crazy to write this down? Well, I'm a writer. Hopefully, it gave the answer.

Movies, music, books, paintings - they all have souls behind them, and we all should appreciate the effort. Giving it all into art that's something I admire and love the most. Faith has to be there when a human puts his/her/their life on the line. I encourage you all, no matter what!

Keep going, my artist buddies!

your soul friend,

Kata Varga

Mindset of Happiness

Do you want me to tell you the secret of happiness? Do you want me to give you a key? Any hint would do on how to be happier? All right, I believe I can do that. How do you feel right now? If you are reading this and not feeling well, then you must continue! People usually don't really care when they ask 'how are you' but I think it matters.

Becoming happy in your human life is not about success, it's not about recognition by others in your profession, in your family, and friends. Happiness is truly a mindset, a habit, a choice. Living balanced should not be a delusion. What does real balance mean? It means you don't get upset that often by the little things, by the things you can not control. Being anxious and depressed all the time is so destructive. Please stop doing that! You can stop it, don't say it's a sickness, don't hide behind it any longer! It's up to you how do you live your life. Yes, you. Not your parents, not your family, not your friends.

If you want something in your life to happen you most definitely need some sort of discipline. Can not do anything without it. Tested and true. It's not going to happen overnight. This is a mindset we are building here, a new lifestyle of not choosing miserable. Do you want to feel happy and balanced? Good, then do something about it! Stop blaming others, stop making excuses! Time flies fast, life ends faster.

Plant the seed of happiness today! Find the power and the faith in your own self! Education matters, any kind of study matters, traveling matters, growing matters. You have a talent, why aren't you using it? Love comes from God if nobody else cares about you. On the other hand, I highly doubt that no one cares about you. Dedicate yourself to any kind of service and you are going to feel better, feel the positive results.

Going to continue tomorrow, stay tuned, my dear buds!

your soul friend,

Kata The Nomad Writer Photographer

Pride and Laws of Nature

It's surely hard enough for us being human in this world, at this time. Our mind is always busy, extremely loud thoughts are coming and going. Good to know that we have to control this material mind to cure our hearts. What can you do about the things that are bothering you?

Pride is not a good adviser. When you think you are better than others it can only create havoc. We should try to admit the mistakes we made, and also do some actions to fix them. Small steps, baby steps count too. All we have to do is practice seeing everybody as a soul. What others may do to us is not who they truly are. Those are just actions in the three modes of nature: goodness, passion, ignorance.

Respect for others means more than pride for ourselves. Give respect to everybody because it is going to make your life easier. Material energy is going to punish you if you keep going the wrong way by judging others. How? What you judge - you become. What you see as something negative in others - is inside you too. Maybe less, maybe more - but it is there. You can get out of it, nobody can stop you from changing, except your own ego. Defeat that ego!

We are eternal souls, not material actions and habits. Please try to remember that!

your soul friend,

Kata The Nomad

Mother is also a name of God

Being a child forever this is how I used to feel all my life. My Mama has always been selfless when it came to my little brother and me. I thought she is an angel sent to make it a lot easier for us to handle this material world. Mama still acts like it is her duty to help us, even when we are doing something for her, she somehow manages to give back instantly. She is turning 67 this May, so I am officially planning to celebrate her in some unexpected and wonderful way. Wish me luck on doing that!

I am hereby encouraging you all to celebrate, love, and hug your Mama! The word mother is also a name of God on the lips of children. I can't remember who said that but it is true. We see our mamas as flawless angels, even when they do something that hurts us at first but then we understand the reason behind it. Mothers are magical. I don't know how they do this but maybe I want to experience it someday. God will decide upon that.

To learn the meaning of humility and compassion - still in progress. A mother can help you practice these two. Listen and learn! Your mama might know more than what she is allowed to tell you. My advice is to ask your mama, and take notes carefully! It is going to change your life.

your soul friend,

Kata The Nomad Writer Photographer

Katom: Let There Be Spring (2022)

Time for SPRING! I officially can not wait any longer. Read my fortune cookie this morning, and it told me to spread my wings and fly on the spring-fling! To be more serious, sunny days ahead. Warmer days also, in heart and soul. Whatever evil comes at you - just laugh at it! That's going to scare the f*cker away. Tested. True.

Mondays are fun days, don't let the trend fool you! You are the only one who can choose the mood.

Eat less sugar, less bakery, less salty - mission impossible? Maybe, but I am trying. As a 99,9% pitta, I have to deal with the huge amount of fire inside of me. Water is also my element, and I need to drink more glass of only water per day. How about you guys?

Wishing you peace in your neighborhood, and hopefully mine is going to settle soon. Meaning: Russia vs Ukraine. This is still an ongoing war. I hate the fact of this happening. Saw the refugees on the train station, heard them talking in the street, and inside the plaza. They are little numb from the shock, especially the kids and teenagers.

I have high hopes for a much better near future for all of us.

Kata The Nomad

Supporting Peace with Faith and Voting

Ukraine is still in need of all the support it can get. We - Hungarians - are there for them, I hope they feel the care. I am aware that everybody wants to stay objective and most likely not take sides. But that is impossible in war. Helping the refugees is taking a side, writing about the war is taking a side, ignoring the war is taking a side, etc. This material world around us forces us to take a side in every small step of our way. Nobody can escape that.

The 3rd of April 2022 is the day of voting - the national referendum. One must care for that too. Who runs the country is important, even if all we can do is vote once every 4 years. Or is it all? I know I wrote about not being obsessed with nationality but as a human being, you have to live somewhere. That country has a government, and if you get the chance to change that or support that - then you should. That is just my small opinion.

Faith is my guidance and voting is my tool. I have to believe in making a difference. I am going to vote as I did before. This is a right I must use to make an example for the youth. I've been asked about the upcoming referendum in Hungary by the 20s, teens - and I said I'm going to vote, no matter what. 

War happens when lies are told. Never forget that!

your soul friend,

Kata The Nomad Writer Photographer

Sunshot, Picfair, The Outset

Sunday. the name is lovely. I adore the Sun. To me, it has a huge effect on my mood as I begin my day. When the Sun is shining I feel the endless possibilities and the limitless energies. I can do what it takes to solve the challenges, to create something new, to take on another adventure. All I need is the Sun to shine wild.

Time to start selling more of my photographs. I registered on Picfair /the free version, for now,/ and we will see how it goes. Before uploading you must read the 'Contributor Agreements'! I think 4 photos of my sweet Lake Balaton will be a good appetizer. Wish me luck!

The Outset - not a secret that I was longing for some natural and good skincare line! I am so happy to welcome The Outset into my life! Going to update you when my package arrives! So excited about trying dear and lovely Scarlett's new brand! The 30s and 40s, here we go!

your weekend soul friend,

Kata The Nomad Writer Photographer

Humanitarian Kenobi

It is an act of goodness to make donations to humanitarian groups that are aiding displaced Ukrainians who were affected by the Russian attack. We are all helping to the degree of our own capacities. Hats off to those who can do much more than the rest of us. Thank you! 

I read some of the news, who said what, and it seems like they are blaming each other - as in most human conflicts. Everyone thinks they are right, not looking at their own actions. Not saying that bombing kids' hospitals and homes are legitimate. Never ever be. 

Russians say they attacked to be the first because they knew Ukraine was about to do so. Really? Adults said that. Read it again, and you will think about fighting children - that is how both Russians and Ukrainians act. Their history & relationship is complicated but that's not the point. Ideologies and national anthems killed most humans of this world. It's nonsense to me.

What does it matter if you die today that you were Russian or Ukrainian? 

To me the way you lived and what you believed in matters only. How you treated others - even the smallest lives. How you spoke, how you hugged your loved ones, how you helped strangers. I don't care about your nationality, nor your bodily complexions.

Try to think about your human chance for a second! Thank you!

your soul friend,

Kata The Nomad Writer Photographer

War Is Not The Answer

I have to write again about what is going on in the neighborhood. Ukraine is our neighbor and we are helping as much as we can. The whole world is in shock still about the fact of this war happening in the now. I've never thought I'm going to live in an era of war. It's real and it's near. We are worried and angry, yet I believe we are all ready to help peace win this war. I stand by the peace-makers.

This material world is full of aggression, full of selfish desires and needs, full of violence, full of careless behavior. I'm so tired to witness the greedy moves. Politicians, governments - they are all the same. At first, they promise everything like big changes for the better then they win and transform into just like the previous ones. Is Putin a good leader? Is Zelenszkij a good leader? Who can answer that? What do the people of Russia or Ukraine know about their leaders?

Hungary is near the fire. We want to know if we are in danger too. Can NATO protect us from Russia/Moscow/Putin? Does it even have to? Or we are too little to attack and too good as a companion/ally? One thing is for sure - we are of no use for Russia from a geo-strategical point of view. Our history has a bloody record: 1849, 1944-1945, 1956. Google it if you don't know but Russians killed our revolutions.

Our community is in close contact with Mariupol and the news is truly devastating. Women and children are in great danger. We all welcome them and try our very best to be of useful assistance.

Pray for Peace! Stay focused and hold on!

your soul friend,

Kata The Nomad

Training Day, 3/3/2022

This day is always the first wave of Spring for me. Always sunny, and lucky, and happy. March is the month where the fun begins! I'm officially so ready 😁😁🤠🤠

My mood is turning into the bright side of life, and I am not ashamed. I feel sorry for the war right next door to us, sorry for the Ukrainian Families, and for the Russians too.

I have to move forward even if the world turns against my will. I have the strength of faith and the love of God, and that's what I need. I believe there are still things for me to do, and people to meet.

I love traveling by train that's why I wrote the title. Right now I'm on a sunny day's train. 120km/h is the maximum speed. I enjoy being in the now for the first time in a long time. I am going to be the happiest!

Mother Nature hugged me tight, let me breathe, and sang to me. I feel at ease, yet I have a LOT of things to do. I like having tasks, learning and teaching. Human life is good for taking the next step.

I wish you all a happy new spring 😘

Kata The Nomad Writer Photographer