Completely Unpretentious

Jaya Jagannatha Misra! Best Dad of all time!

First things first, read Sri Caitanya Bhagavata Adi-lila Chapter 3.! ;) You might happen to find out about some wonder over there.

Most people try too hard to become funny, to act easy-going, to wisely comment on every little thing others are sharing, to pretend they are somebody else just to fit in. I know exactly how they are feeling, yet I am here to encourage them all to start their own path! Sounds cliché? It is most definitely not. 2021 has to bring freedom to all living beings. Freedom from the so preciously pampered ego, freedom from the heavy labels society put upon us, freedom from the lies the weak keep telling to us, freedom from all kinds of fear which exists only in our minds, freedom from all fake material, freedom from any racial or sexual discrimination, freedom from animal-cruelty, freedom from the careless and clueless people, freedom from hating each other for no real reason, freedom from envy.

In my way of seeing things, what makes a person really fun to be around is that if he or she is completely him or herself. I am totally capable of accepting anything and anybody. I am now in peace with myself and with this world around me. This does not mean that I gave up trying to make it a better place. This tells you all that I am still here, you can count on me sticking around for some more rounds. Pain and pleasure, we are here for both. This is the material world, folks!

I pray daily, chant my mantras, walk the path which was given to me. Never said it's going to be an easy ride, oh hell no! What is worth it is hard, what is valueless is easy. Tested and true. Always think before you speak, even more before you write down something!

Appreciate people and help them to find their strength or talent because we all are good at something! Joke around whenever you can, especially nowadays when all still seems so fragile! Keep going and look for the positive vibes and the loud waves of laughter!

I am an open book and this is how I have always been. You don't have to read between the lines, yet you have to be able to follow. I like people who are witty and facetious, a little sarcastic, and enormously waggish. Intelligence is a must, yet superior intellect also matters to me. To be connected to the higher platform of thinking and existing. To live on a conscious level.

Mondays are usually kicking off with a humorous start. Every day something unexpected is happening to me. I am beginning to feel that soon Gandalf is going to knock on my door to invite me on my next adventure. I'd very much like that! 

All I am saying is, keep your eyes open and your mouth shut! Well, at least for a short period of time until the masks are off and it gets safe to PDA again (public demonstration of affection)! Ah, sweet Spring! What will you bring this year? (Better be magical, healthy, and inspirational!)

Have fun, dear humans! And our four-legged buddies too! :)

your cheerful friend,

Kata Varga

Grace and Dignity for Women in 2021

What does it truly mean to us in 2021 to have grace and dignity? How do we behave when nobody is watching or how do we act when all is on display? Are they different or are they the same? What does it even have to do with us? Does it only apply to women or men can have it too?

I was wondering today about us, the 2021 Women. Yeah, from my point of view we are not this body but we have to use this body so we better think wise, not twice.

We all just took first steps into an era of a very strange world. On the other hand, it's all the same. Why? Because the inside matters, how we act and react to the things happening in the outside world. And trust me, folks, many things come up daily!

We are spirit souls trapped in this tiny little material world, trying to fix it but seems like we all want it differently. The fun has already begun, so let's unpack all that has happened to us in late 2020!

As much as we all hate to read, speak or hear about it, Covid-19 (and its mutated versions) is still here with us. Not going to encourage it by saying 'stronger than ever' but it is here. Now the fight between groups of people (smart and dumb) is about whether or not to take the vaccine, or which vaccine to take. I am officially so tired of it, yet I would love to find a correct answer on this from someone I can trust. Faith helps a lot but can't put this much pressure on God to save everybody Himself, one by one. Better do all that we can to keep this body healthy and capable of doing our duties.

Women need to take care of themselves even more because we all know we do the job. Yup, each and every serious decision or heavy burden lies upon our tiny shoulders. Not going to write down famous phrases but every Mother, Sister, Wifey, Daughter, Girlfriend knows what I am talking about here. Surviving is not the goal of human life but without survival, there won't be a path to take and learn from.

Grace is not just about how we live our lives but how we treat all the other living beings. Not eating meat is just one of the so many ways to express it. Yet, I would like to say that I am not here to judge anybody nor to 'evangelize' into my faith. But we - women - have to state an example for the others.

Dignity means to me to know what is worth it and what is not. Many women around me settled for less than what or who they deserved because of lack of faith in themselves, abuse, blaming the circumstances, choosing the easy way, giving up too early, trying to fit in, letting others decide for them, etc. Sad, isn't it? Yet, that is never too late to stand up, dust yourselves, and walk tall again with what God has given to you! Tested and true.

Our health matters. Grace and dignity are going to bring it closer to how it should be. We can not be happy if we are not healthy. So I'm asking all of you, my amazing fellow Women out there, to pretty-pretty please take better care of yourselves! This is what should motivate you all in the darkest days or moments of human life.

To make a difference starts with living a meaningful life. You can only help others if you are done helping yourself! Just think about this for a second!

your cheerful girlfriend,

Kata Varga

 

Springtime 2021 Began

Spring is the most wonderful season. Anything can happen. And it happens. It's all happening. Surprise after surprise. We have to believe in changes are about to come. Already on the way to you all. Trust God when the answer is 'wait' because it won't be that long! We did survive the worst I hope so. 2021 has to be better! It is better now that spring took one foot in. Don't you feel it?

We can make the best out of what we have and who we are. How? Just look deep INSIDE! You are enough. The daily routine is the key. It starts with the wake-up and ends with going to sleep. In between? Your call.

Looking for happiness or being happy? It's not going to come on its own without you lifting a finger. Hard work gives you real joy when you know you deserve it. What you want badly enough - you work damn hard for.

I used to hate running but this March made me start it. I thought I am only going to work for money but these times have made me do a lot of charity and service for free for more than a year now. There are so many other things I opened my eyes and my heart for.

Spring has new and stronger winds. Spring is going to push you further too! Tested and true!

Have you ever heard about spring-cleaning? Have you ever done it? Well, 2021 is going to be perfect for a huge cleaning around, cleaning inside, cleansing too! Let's begin!

Tightrope walks are over. Moonlight dances are on the way. Bathing in the sunshine is a new trend. Haha, not that new. Try to enjoy what is given! Human life is a rare gift so pretty-pretty please use it well!

Springtime has begun. It's official. Can't stop the feeling! :D

your cheerful friend,

Kata Varga

Good Old Laughter

Reminder - laugh every day as many times as possible but it should be even more than that! Yes, most definitely!

A good old loud and almost dropping a tear (maybe not just that)laughter gets you through the days and keeps you much healthier. Now especially with all that is going on in the world. We need funny moments, cracking jokes, wide smiles, and bold pranks.

When somebody can make me laugh I feel we have a connection instantly. It does not matter how he or she looks, where he or she came from, it happens. Makes everything so magical. People can relate to each other through a funny moment. 

I believe in the power of comedy. Humans need laughter like we need oxygen. Trust me, we do. Better surround ourselves with the ones who share the spirit! Tested and true. In my point of view, funny is the new healthy. When somebody knows how to play on the right strings that is just priceless. Human lives depend on it.

I hereby encourage all who have the gift to stand up and walk tall! This is your time, this is your era! This material world needs more of you and much more of the so healthy loud laughter.

Do you know any person whose laughter is echoing even long after he or she left? Let's make a call! Meet new people too, meet those who were born as an original! You know what I mean, those ones of kinds.

My main point with this whole blog post is LAUGH for God's sake! Please make yourself happy and all the rest will follow! We can't always be hard work and complaints, am I right people? Of course, I am! Change your damn life, human! I am deadly serious here.

Laughter is the most natural and beautiful way to say 'I love you' or 'I like you' and also 'Thank you' and 'Please'. Just saying.

your bear-hugging writer friend,

Kata Varga

Confidential voice

There is a side of everybody's life that they think should be hidden. I hereby tell you all that it's going to find its way to the light. Only a matter of time. So what I believe is to lead a life fully-wonderfully honest. No regrets buddies, what happened is in that past and it is going to stay that way. What is happening now has to be the most relevant. What is going to happen sooner or later, well that will do its job. 

I became good friends with balance. Let's just tease the word for a while. Long enough to truly understand what it can mean in human life. Have you ever considered living by the famous 'All or nothing' attitude? Wrong. Try it again! Balance means you know perfectly well how adult life goes, yet you are willing to put your efforts into the right cases. Give without wanting anything in return and it surely gets you more than you have ever imagined. Tested and true.

You deserve the opportunities which were meant for you. You make the choices with your free will which was not given cheaply. Destiny and God's plan won't destroy you nor your dreams, it is about to support or reboot them. Try to learn the art of patience and accept changes as angels heaven sent.

Why am I saying this is confidential? Because many of you neglect the value of human life. Yet, it should be the most precious. Only those who had gone through enormous pain and joy can relate. Each day is a new beginning, yet you do all the same. Repeat the creation of bondage. What can shake you up enough to stop doing it again? I believe you shouldn't wait for that to come knocking.

To understand the concept of human life's purpose being confidential you have to be able to open up. One face is enough. Your true face, not your two face! 

your ever well-wisher friend,

Kata Varga

Stick around

I like this phrase because it can be used for so many 'stuff and thangs'* (*Rick Grimes' words). I don't know whether you have ever thought about your time on this planet Earth but I have. God tricked me because I am still here and as I was told a few days ago by a wise Vedic-astrologer I might going to stick around for a little more. I have to use it well and I am planning on not wasting too much of it. Habits, oh God, need to change a few extra! Work in progress, I have to say.

Yet, it was proven previously that 21 days only how long it takes to replace a routine or a custom. No problem, I am willing to participate in this. Get up even earlier, eat exceedingly healthier, start running (Which I used to really, really hate!), do more mantra meditation (Sanskrit mantras), read and write even more than I thought humanly possible! And frankly, the list can be extended.

We all can relate to this, I am pretty sure the spring winds already hit many of you! Let's surf on those waves of new directions! Life indeed is too short and every curious being wants to find the 'Real Deal', am I right? Of course, I am. You ain't no different in this.

Let it be. Just do it. Go with the flow. Act like that inner nerd trying to guide you for decades now! God is waiting for your effort to be put in. Miracles happen, for sure, but let's just won't expect only that! Actions speak louder, remember? What you do daily, how you behave, what you say and how you say it, the sacrifices you make, and what/who you do them for! It all matters.

I am going to stick around but I have no idea for how long. So if you want to ask me anything, it the better to fire that question at me now! Don't think too much! Don't overanalyze yourself or your situation! I am here to give you a simple answer. As my spiritual grandpa said: 'Simple living, high thinking.'!

your ever well-wisher friend,

Kata Varga

Motivation as the soul's vaccine

I have high hopes about people finally understand where does real health comes from. 'Health is wealth' I think we all learnt that by now. Don't take for granted that you are here today! Try to focus on life as it is not as anybody else interpreting it! There is a way to open our eyes to the raw truth of the present moment. It might be a little painful at first but then starts the fun!

What is the fragrance of love? What's the scent of life? Have you ever wondered what is your strongest sense? What do you respond to the most? Is it the cheerful or peaceful sounds of the world? Or is it the magical colors of it? The smell of something you have a fond memory of? 

These things make life even more challenging because we all want only the good times. Bad times are there to motivate us but it's hard to see them this way. When the soul gets tired there has to be a big change coming on its way. We are all able to get through it, anything or anybody getting in our way. If you have the right goal and if you keep acting determined to reach it, there is nothing or nobody who can stop you from arriving there.

Motivation kicks in when you least expect it. Tested and true. Use it well, go with the flow of the inner self! Priorities in human life should be to remain humble at all times, to understand others, and feel compassion for even the smallest living being. Take the next step, don't try to fix yourself before even getting started! Just do it! Nobody is picking winners nor losers! It's your call how you live this life. 

Rest and relaxation are important. You need to press that restart button on yourself from time to time. Step out for the sunshine, run for the thunder of thoughts to calm, walk miles for an answer, hit up your favorite places near you, talk the shaft out of your jokes and punchlines! Just have fun, the possibilities are endless!

What is your vision? Are you willing to change that if there are better things ahead? 

Just think about this for a second!

your ever well-wisher friend,

Kata Varga

Adventures inside - where does the fun begin?

March brings new things, not just spring itself but great adventures on the inside too. When everything starts blooming outside you simply can not escape rejuvenating on the inner platform. Where is that? Where does the fun begin?

The heart is the 'home sweet home' of the tiny little spark, the always happy living entity, the real self - the soul. Everything else is just a cover. Yet, it matters how you deal with what you have: the personality, the mind, the intelligence, the fake ego.

Human life means you got convinced that you can do better. Better than what? Well, better than just running without thinking. (Sometimes you need that - the actual running without thinking - but you know exactly what I meant here.) We all have dreams, goals, and we all try to move forward, especially now in this worldwide pandemic.

You have got a lot of life experience that's happened and you must be exhausted from defending yourself, your dreams, and the things or people precious to you. We all have the ability to make our own choices in a way that others can not understand. That's all right. Variety is a huge part of life.

I have lived an outrageously free adult lifestyle so far and have to tell you God has never left my side. Even back then when I was deaf to the wise words and blind to the light. It all has been changed since the day I have changed myself and the way I see and hear the things around me. The mindset you choose to be lead by matters.

Adventures are a part of the journey and you can create them by entering a new level of consciousness. Where things are not just happening with you. Enormous fun awaits! How do I know this? Well, I am already walking the path. Are you about to join me?

Your ever well-wisher friend,

Kata Varga